Thursday, November 30, 2006

Relationships!!



A relationship, for me is the most beautiful thing one can experience. The dictionary meaning of Relation is 'emotional association between people'. Each and every relation has certain feelings behind them. Relationships happen and sometimes don't work out. Human beings have the tendency to fall in love with two or more people at different times. 'Pleasure' is a one word definition for the modern world relationship.
Nowadays the value of true relations is understood by very few. The trend of 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' has become common. Sometimes we see that there is absolutely no connectivity between the two involved in the so called relation. Have emotions completely lost the importance in a relationship?
Relationships are those lovely pieces of life which we must cherish. When one becomes young that is the time when he experiences the first love affair with life. Youth is the time when one feels free to reach out to others. As one steps out of his adolescence he feels confident to approach people. As they say… “Friendships form, Relationships happen."
Sometimes, for people who are in the same class for a long time, the cupid seems to wing in. The girl and the boy go out. A few meetings and they decide on to 'go around'. What does this 'going around' actually mean? The young generation seems to get out of relationships even more than they get in them. Friendships and relationships are so easy nowadays. The impression that our hip-hop and hopscotch youths are cut off from their emotional parts proves difficult to ward off. The youth in the metros seem to be trying to adapt the western relationship patterns. As soon as they develop a liking for somebody they tend to rush themselves into serious relationships when they don't even understand each others sentiments fully. Communication and conversations are less and hence may be the main cause of failed relationships. Most of the young lot gets into relationships only to satisfy their physical needs. The main need of the relationship, the value of the relationship is not understood very well by the crowd.
If you really love someone never let go, don't believe that letting go means that you love best, and instead fight for your love, that's what true love is. In love, very rarely do we win but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself. Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel and not how you let go but how you hold on. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who are hurt those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched their lives.
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love. It is this weirdness’ i believe in... So... to all the lovers...LOVE is the message!!

15 comments:

Tweety said...

Cool stuff ! What's up haan ;) You writing about relationships-et-al! Geering up by any chance ? Way to go... :p

Manali said...

Tweetz.. :((

Wish i cud be sayin that.. But certainly.. Inspiring

Unknown said...

akshay shali: well i nver believed in the english dictionary, for me relationship is not just a emotional association..it is much bigger than that...relationship the word in itself contains a word relate which actually decides if it is a relationship or not..if u relate with a person on any level , be it for a second a relationship bond is formed..if u see a street artist on the road performing/singing/lecturing and u believe or relate to that person a relationship bond is formed..even if u r not going to see that person again..in the old days people had good relations with their postman, shopkeeper..they werent going out with each other..but the only thing that connected them was that they vould relate to each other...but these days realtionship is only their if u know that person or u r going out wid him..pleasure yes has become a integral part of relationship these days, some relationships are formed only for that reason... ans as u have written it already that relationship happen, and it can only happen if u r able to relate to that person..relationship and love both are interrelated and have the comman element of been able to relate..if that is not their they both fail badly..and relations and frendships are formed becuase we dont want to be alone. now to be fave part LOVE..HUMMM..these days real love is there,, but is rare so if anyone is in it..please keep it going.. and i totally agree with the last para abt love..it is all truth and nothin but the truth...and LOVE IS A MESSAGE WITHOUT MEANING SO GUYS/GALS DONT FRET ABT FINDING THE MEANING..JUST READ THE MESSAGE AND ENJOY IT THOURGLY...(to all lovers)..keep falling in it///chow...

Unknown said...

Nice article, Some similar views on my blog....Chk out last article on my blog..Wat is LOVE!!

Manali said...

I did read it Tanmay.. Guess our thots match juz rite!:)

Sarang said...

There's nothing called a relationship...it's all goddamn convenience...if the convenience is lost ,the relationship's gone...
Love is convenience...letting go is lack of convenience...get out of the rosy stuff lady...nothing's gonna happen unless it's convenient for u...

Ray said...

Great Blog Gurrrl. Loved it !!

Unknown said...

sounds good..but i think now relationship has nothing to do with the emotions.it would be a just union between the two person.:-)

manu said...

its gud....u r getting better ...seems like i have to take ur views for my blogs..my inspiration...thnks..due to u..i have startd to try to write like u gal :) :)

way to go...bst wishes..

Ashwin said...

hi manalee....
Read ur blog on relationships...well my thoughts regarding relationships and their relevance in todays world is similar to urs...nice writing.

Nish-O-Nash said...

Too much has been said and done and discussed about this issue, so a simple simple smile should do the trick! yeeeeeeee

Unknown said...

hi...
nice.. really like it..
but can i say something if u love some1 n there are no conditions.. n if they wanna leave.. n u shld let them.. if they come back thn its true... tats wat i think.. u cant always fight.. u sometimes have 2 give up for the better good.. maybe sometimes it doesnt meant to happen with the person u love.. sometimes u have to move on without tat person in your life n hope fate will bring back tat person in ur life n things...
nitesh

Nothing but "Ficus" said...

nice blog there Manalee, i really like some of the stuff you have discussed here..
my view however differ :).

While I believe relationships r beautiful and completely necessary, I do not believe in eternal love or more importantly "unconditional" love. while words of romanticism and teen-aged lovers sighing on their midnight pillow are all beautiful and oh so cute, it rarely lasts..thats the ultimate truth. becoz when the moment of practicality arises, and its time for a future, a further education or marriage, then love is conveniently thrown out of the window..we all do it, (or will do it, if u r in a relationship thts still working). Not to sound cynical, but hey haven't you seen it all around you? we live in an era of failed relationships.

its got its bright sides too, and the magic is learning how not to let it hurt you..visit my blog sometime...i have a certain article about love myself.

Anonymous said...

aha!! i loved the last part
and i totally agree with it too.we are all def WEIRD in our own special different ways!

ABHINAV said...

awesome blog....jus one word for it..superb...